syl's wedding
syl's solo wedding (and 40th birthday)
Saturday, February 14th 2026
6 o'clock in the evening
Toronto Naval Club
1910 Gerrard St E
Toronto, Ontario
Make sure to arrive on time
Dress Code: All Black
Alternate Dress Code: The Outfit You Never Get To Wear
This year, I’m saying “I do” - to myself!
For my 40th birthday, I’ll be throwing a wedding unlike any other: one that celebrates self-love, independence, and the joy of building a life worth committing to.
Join me for an unforgettable evening filled with love, laughter, music, and dancing as I marry myself and toast to the next fabulous decade.
Because sometimes the greatest love story of all is the one you have with yourself 💍❤️
What to expect:
- a walk down the aisle
- a raffle
- vows
- a performance, perhaps
- music and dancing
- laughing and crying (?)
- some bites to eat
- some drinks (+ cash bar to follow)
FAQ
Can I make a speech?
Great question! Can you? Are you able to make a speech that separates you from the mundane ones I've heard at the multiple weddings that I've attended? Then please, be my guest. There is one caveat, or condition, which is that I reserve the right to interrupt you mid speech if I feel like it's mundane.
Additionally, I'll be accepting speeches in the format of a roast.
Please get in touch if you plan on speaking!
Are you really marrying yourself?
What's your definition of "really"? Conceptually, yes. Legally, no (but also, surprise!).
Am I really marrying myself in the sense that I will stand in front of a room full of people that I love and who love me, and will make vows to myself requesting that I be held accountable? Yes.
The concept may seem strange to you, but I hope that you will support my endeavour with an open mind and open heart.
A honeymoon?
Maybe? I haven't made travelling a priority in the last few years as my focus has been on other pursuits.
I expect that this solo wedding extravaganza celebration will be lots of fun while also being quite emotional. I'd ideally like to take a solo trip to Haida Gwaii, BC to spend time reflecting on my intentions for the next chapter, as well as soak in all the feelings from my wedding.
Currently a loose plan.
Can I bring a guest?
Absolutely! Please make sure to RSVP on their behalf.
I don't have any black clothing to match the dress code. What should I do?
Fret not! It's all good. Grey, navy, off black, anything goes. But also, that's why there's an alternate dress code!
Why is there an alternate dress code?
My pal Devin has a suit that he worked hard on designing and making and I really hope he wears it.
Hi Devin, if you're reading this, please wear your MET Gala suit to my wedding, thank you.
Can I contribute in any way to the logistics of your wedding?
Absolutely. I'll be looking for a few items during the planning stage (mason jars, probably) and crowd sourcing some materials and ideas. I'll be sending out emails with these asks, so stay tuned!
Are children welcome?
As much as I love the little hooligans, I want to be able to spend time with their parents without the distractions that come with parenting during an event. Plus, I don't think the Toronto Naval Club has a kid's table.
Is the venue accessible?
I will provide more details/confirmation on the venue's accessibility once I complete another visit. From what I remember, there are no stairs or barriers to entry for both the venue and washrooms.
Gifts?
YOU are the gift! Truly.
I know some of you will be insistent with gifting me with something. I appreciate you, and want to reiterate that it is not at all necessary or expected.
But let's break it down, anyway.
1. Will you be accepting gifts?
Of course. If you want to gift me a little something that reminded you of me, something you think I'll appreciate, etc. I would feel so happy.
2. Do you have a registry?
No. I am directing people to make a donation to Mattie's Place, which is the rescue where Babe came from.
I am alternatively directing folks to make a donation to my honeymoon or ring fund instead. If I have the financial bandwidth, I'd like to either go on a trip to reflect on the event, or potentially work with a local silversmith to get a custom ring made to remember this milestone.
GIVE TO ME
Your love and support mean the world to me and is already bountiful. If you're considering a gift, I would be honoured if you would contribute to my honeymoon/ring fund instead: e-transfer @ sylaucoin@gmail.com
GIVE TO OTHERS
Babe is a huge part of my life and would be so thankful if a donation was made to the rescue from which he came from: Mattie's Place